TRISTATE: Right, Wrong and Morally Grey

When you are right, stay firm, stand strong you are fighting for the Right side.
When you are wrong, figure out where you went Wrong, what you did that didn't sit well.
Try to walk on grey spots. Right or Wrong when you are in the Grey area, things are more in perspective.

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TRISTATE: Brake, Clutch, Accelerator

There must exist a synergy between all 3. You have to know how it is done! You have to do it right, use each at the right time. Know when to use the BRAKE, when to use the CLUTCH and when to use the ACCELERATOR!

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TRISTATE: Love, Hate, Indifference

You have to love with all of you... give LOVE with complete abandon!

Hate with reason, hate and keep it intense!

Indifference, disdain what you can't have! Let it go!

TRISTATE: Whores, Saints and Chameleons

You have to embrace every part of you. You must be like the Chameleon, adapting and merging with you present environment. You have to be a Saint so people will be pulled to you. You have to be a Whore so you can understand the pleasure in debasement.

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TRISTATE: Noise, Silence, Melody

Noise: Blocks out the important points, things that matter... kill it!

Silence: Allows you to hear them, give you stealth, lets you creep on the enemy... use it

Melody: Keeps you sane... own it!

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TRISTATE: Real Life, Fantasy and Kink

Real Life: What do you feel? What is real to you?

Fantasy: What do you want to experience?

Kink: How far are you willing to let yourself go?

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TRISTATE: Winning, Losing and Drawing

Win the war... always win the war... ALWAYS WIN THE WAR!

Lose battles, lose inconsequential, lose what counts not.

Draw when you know he is stronger, retreat to come back and strike!

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TRISTATE: Yes, No and Maybe

Life is full of decisions and you have all the power over what decisions you make. You must realise that, unless in extreme instances, you have all control over directions your decisions lead you. Learn when you say: YES, NO and MAYBE.

YES: You know for sure you can make it happen, you can achieve set goals, you will deliver.

NO: Absolutely nothing will make you do it, you aren't invested in said objective. You won't do it.

MAYBE: A yes and a no.... use this rarely. Think of it as Helium, it's silly and funny when you inhale it and talk in a high pitched voice. Once in a while, it's funny maybe even cute but trust you do it often and not only do you endanger your life but you'll never be taken serious.

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TRISTATE: Coming, Going and Staying

In all you do, you must know when you come, go and stay.

Coming: Approaching a point, destination
Going: Heading to a point/destination.
Staying: Keeping put!

Know how and when to use which!

TRISTATE: Past, Future and Present

Now is all that matters. Sure past experiences weigh on it and plans for the future do to but those should take the back burner to the now. Make every second count. The present is prime!

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TRISTATE: Delete, Add and Control

Delete: Things that don't make you better

Add: Things that make you the best you.

Control: Everything!

TRISTATE: Selfless, Selfish and Narcissistic

Selfless: Give till it hurts

Selfish: Hold back  till they hurt

Narcissistic: Love you till it/they/you hurt!

Achieve TriState

TRISTATE: Truths, Half-Truths and Lies

You have to know which truth, half-truth and lies to tell; whom to tell which to and under what situation you should use which.

Truth is the full blown fact... no if, and or but... just putting it out as it is.

Half-Truth is when you omit facts and give part of the whole tale.

Lies are FACT distorted.

You need all 3.

Use IT

TRISTATE: Darkside, Light and Greys

You must embrace your darkside... feeling ill towards people is part of being human. Just know how to balance that with your light side...DO GOOD!

Greys are the part of you that you show everyone... a blend of both. You can't be a pushover nor a dick... balance well.

Know you
Do evil
Do good!

TRISTATE: Giving, Receiving and Appreciation

To receive, give!

You have to be open to opportunities and you must understand that no gift is a waste. Learn to be a cheerful giver; give gifts that count. Don't give someone something you really wouldn't value as a gift. A gift doesn't have to be material, it could be your time, energy, you can give yourself. The key is to give a gift that is from your core.

Learn to receive.  A gift is not always a trojan horse, you must not always expect the worst from people. Accept a gift cheerfully, keep a mental note and reciprocate. A gift is an arc in an eternal circle, you must reciprocate to keep the arcs growing into a circle.

Your mother told you to say "Thank you". Keep at it, you do not have to appreciate people in your level or those above you, pay attention (even more so) to them and appreciate every little gesture. You must ensure they know you notice all they do (no matter how small it might seem to you) and that you appreciate it.

TriState is daily living.